A woman in a private Facebook group named “Super Mums” recently shared a concern with other women in the group about an incident that occurred in their home. She openly shared that her husband just raped his step-daughter, and she is soliciting advice from her fellow mothers on what to do. In the name of “advice,” the other women in the group proceed to give surprising comments.
One of the women with a Facebook name Okechukwu Precious said:
“Send your daughter away, and maintain your marriage, forgive your husband, is temptation for both of you thank God she is not pregnant, send her any way she have her own life to live. If you destroy your marriage because of her, tomorrow she will still marry and leave you, please apply wisdom.”
Etimbuk Nnana replies saying the daughter is to blame:
“You people are misinterpreting this story o. Madam you want to leave your marriage without work, money, accommodation and so on? Madam your daughter is not supposed to be called daughter. 15 years child is old enough to identify between good and bad. Keeping quiet means she enjoys the act. Ahaba!
Note: I am not supporting your husband, act. Take action by arresting your husband first. But I think your daughter is to be blamed more! Dont leave yet if you are not capable enough to provide for yourself and children.”
Some other Facebook commenters shared that she should forgive and endure:
Njideka Chukwu Ruessydavies shared:
“As for me, forgive him, since he has sincerely apologized. Men sleeping with their step daughter is very common that is why we need to avoid it earlier. Those saying that she will sleep with his own daughter, he cant do it. Now you said that you don’t have anything doing. Think twice before you get more frustrated. Where are you taking those children to in this hard time?”
One other commenter shared:
What would have been your response in this situation?
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